So Ladies, what else can you fake??

[SID_NY]

@Reha

You have a lot to see if you call that an outburst. A feminist according to the average male here is anyone who says “women arent evil” or “let me have a job” or even “can you watch your brats so I can use the restroom”…so I guess Im not all that cut up over being called one.

I agree, I really do have to see a lot and thats why I just wanna be proactive to know these things… And the definitions that you have mentioned about feminists for guyz, umm.. no thats not completely true. But I dont wana get indulged in it cuz that’ll move us away from the original discussion.
Trust me Reha, its really good for you if you are not one of them.

@Reha

Men dont deal with much…some MIGHT…but majority dont and the reason is because they get to go out and work. They get to ignore all the issues during the day, go home at night, say they’re tired and go to bed. No one bugs them after that.

Again, you are ignoring one big time fact, what about the issues that guyz deal with whole day??!! Its also part of life, doesnt it? Dont you think they deserve things to be shared as well?? Why do you think guyz are actually “steel-men” who should be keep on moulding themselves to give 110% to their women, but noone even thinks if they are getting anything out of it or no!! The heat of SIL-MIL-wife issues in the end does damage poor husband, the most!

@Reha

The facts of life dont change when some random guy - not even married - comes and posts things he hasnt actually seen - just heard - from threads opened in our very own life1 forum. Im actually talking about the # of threads you see. If women were sooo chalak and sly…their first victim would be their MIL. As for her being a woman, well you just made my point. Obviously, we arent all that hoshiyaar and fake because the DIL or MIL never seem to get along.

I dont see how do I make your point, but if you wana take this way, I’m happy for you.
The fight between in-laws and the wife, is usually a skirmish between two provocative women, and the clever one wins in the end.
Thats why I most of the times have seen guyz trying their best to stay away from it cuz no matter how much they try, this issue can only be resolved by the women only, IF THEY WANT SO.

@Reha

Like I said, men are not anymore gullible than women who get tricked into marrying absolute douche bags because he says a few nice things. I see more men plotting to get a girl to like them than the opposite.

I’ve seen more men getting hurt by their respective guls and that damage is totally brutal. Number may be less, but the net-effect falls badly on the guyz then the other side.

@Reha

If its faking you’re talking about…men take the cake. Women simply learn to fake as a survival tactic where men use it as a way of life. Women fake orgasms to keep the delicate male ego functioning. Women feign interest in things you have to say so you dont feel so boring and mundane after a few years of marriage. Women pretend not to care when they havent been made to feel like a woman in months to preserve the overall sanity of their home.

I can accept that orgasm reasons cuz it does make sense but what I was pointing out was not just an orgasm , its just whole lot of activities. But thats again making fool of herself and the guy if she is not letting that person know that hey, you need to do something more rather than just believing that you are hitting the right spot which you arent. I mean, if she really luvs her guy, why fake it.. why not just be true couple who have chemistry in complete life, they are not only for intimacy moments afterall!!

[SID_NY]

I beg to differ, men would play with one... either run away from a commitment (marriage) if things get boring, play with another on the side. If sparks happen, marry her.. this can happen 2 more times, to make it an even 4. Strange enough, none of his wives would know about the 'others'.. in comparision i'd take a fake smile/orgasm any day. Funny part, most women would never know, maybe all their lives sigh.

Another strange fact is, men go through a lot of effort to 'woo' a woman.. follow her around, ask her status, give her his number etc. How are they gullible and falling into the evil traps of women?

Oh masoom larkay, that never check-out a girl, have never offered any their number. Awe!

What you are mentioning in the first para and I think Reha also pointed this out is not faking, its just cheating.. and whoever is doing it is actually committing a crime. Wutever is wrong, I cannot even argue on that.

My point always is that why cannot be a girl/guy can be so much into each other so that they can just let the other person know what is actually happening, even if the guy is checking-out a gul.. his wife/gf should be able to understand that if the guy is telling her that, atleast he is not hiding anything which is so much better than all sorta cheating or faking..

[diwana]

@SID_NY

From smile to orgasm, its a universal truth that **women are beyond doubt the ultimate maestro of faking and I totally understand it may not be in bad intent. **
So what else are they good at faking? They rule the relationship with an extraordinary quality of Pretending at so many times, that I believe no man can even come close to know what are they upto. But lets suppose if someone really wants to get a good idea of whether the gestures from the opposite side are real or no, what else should he be knowing?

Can guyz really see through what is coming next? Ok this may be the second question, so first thing first. Again, I’m not asking if the false pretending is only for any bad intention, but if its there… what is the diagnosis??

Can we go back to the start?

The red part was ignored…for some reason.

The diagnosis is in the head of the man.

Being able to add 2 + 2 as 4 is the responsibility of the man.

Many men were and will be saved from ultimate humiliation if they do not follow any human creation with predominantly estrogen production (women) without using their organs called brain which resides in the skull bones…

[Gina]

@SID_NY

What you are mentioning in the first para and I think Reha also pointed this out is not faking, its just cheating.. and whoever is doing it is actually committing a crime. Wutever is wrong, I cannot even argue on that.

My point always is that why cannot be a girl/guy can be so much into each other so that they can just let the other person know what is actually happening, even if the guy is checking-out a gul.. his wife/gf should be able to understand that if the guy is telling her that, atleast he is not hiding anything which is so much better than all sorta cheating or faking..

You have to be a con and fake your undying love for someone while having a wife... to be able to 'cheat' on them later.

A guy checking-out a girl should be alright by women.. a women checking-out a guy is always taboo? Why?

Without turning this into a gender, men fake as much as women do if not more. They fake their lives to woo a girl, fake loving one woman while being and 'seeing' another.

[Reha]

Re: So Ladies, what else can you fake??

Like I said before...women fake not for selfish reasons...but for selfless reasons. What in it for her if she doesnt tell her husband he isnt satisfying her? What does she get out of it aside from more of the same experience?

If we didnt fake...there would be no male ego.

[korn666]

Re: So Ladies, what else can you fake??

huge difference between fake and cheating!!!!