You have a lot to see if you call that an outburst. A feminist according to the average male here is anyone who says “women arent evil” or “let me have a job” or even “can you watch your brats so I can use the restroom”…so I guess Im not all that cut up over being called one. 
Men dont deal with much…some MIGHT…but majority dont and the reason is because they get to go out and work. They get to ignore all the issues during the day, go home at night, say they’re tired and go to bed. No one bugs them after that.
The facts of life dont change when some random guy - not even married - comes and posts things he hasnt actually seen - just heard - from threads opened in our very own life1 forum. Im actually talking about the # of threads you see. If women were sooo chalak and sly…their first victim would be their MIL. 
As for her being a woman, well you just made my point. Obviously, we arent all that hoshiyaar and fake because the DIL or MIL never seem to get along.
Like I said, men are not anymore gullible than women who get tricked into marrying absolute douche bags because he says a few nice things. I see more men plotting to get a girl to like them than the opposite.
If its faking you’re talking about…men take the cake. 
Women simply learn to fake as a survival tactic where men use it as a way of life. Women fake orgasms to keep the delicate male ego functioning. Women feign interest in things you have to say so you dont feel so boring and mundane after a few years of marriage. Women pretend not to care when they havent been made to feel like a woman in months to preserve the overall sanity of their home.
An excellent example would be cheesy pick up lines…who uses them? Men or women?