So it goes like this.. .. ..

I have spots !?!?! And my stupid, horrible, mean, and evil cousins keep making a point of them.

Like right now :mad2: my cousin told me i’m ugly and will remain like this. How can people be so cruel? And it’s not only him My Aunties always make a point of them. Flan Flan cheez isitmal karo, try such and such lotion and potion..

But it’s my life, my spots, my face, my problem. Right now i hate Pakis too :grumpy: Why are people so interfering …

:fed-up:

Dont worry. They go away after you get married.

fungi ?!?!?

:flower1: Dear Ducky…You are not ugly at all the fools who said ARE…spots are a natural process and besides it has nothing to do with beauty or personality…tell those morons they will stay stoopid forever and u will lose spots in a few years…my child, aunties have nothin better to do u see…:D…

and pleeeeeeez dont hate us we are not ALL bad :kiss:

jharoo thats what the relatives are for.

to discourage you. they are just doing their jobs. :-)

lastknight - awww, thanks. That’s gone someway into making me feel better :flower1:

jharoo - i should ignore them but they’re sooooooo repetitive, everytime, every day, its the same old story.

Disco Duck:

You posted your picture in the gallery a while back and I can honestly say that you are not ugly...quite the opposite in fact!

Lastknight is correct when they say that these aunties have nothing better to do other than criticize others. As for your cousins, they sound like they are just jealous of you.

Just ignore them!

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jharoo - i should ignore them but they're sooooooo repetitive, everytime, every day, its the same old story.
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thats a part of it too.

Mehnaz sis. I don’t know about the rest of the world but when i’m at home i look like a tramp. I like to be at ease in my own home and that i can only be when i’m in my scruffs. I don’t know how people have the energy to doll up at home all the time - and my cousins have a problem with this. :sigh:

Thanks though :hug:

DD :mad: who was it? do you want me to take care of them? Just let me know OK. I got your back!

:slight_smile:

It's very normal that you stay in your most comfortable clothes when at home. For me, that means staying in my pajamas or an over-sized, ratty tatty shalwar kameez. Majority of women I know are like this. They'll be in their jogging pants or bathrobe!

As for your cousins, perhaps they need a hobby or need better things to occupy their time than focussing on how you dress. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be in relaxed clothing while at home....it's quite normal!

100% agreed! :k:

Duckyy.....who said that?;smash:

you are Mashallah very pretty. Dont listen to those idiots.

well, ducks usually have spots anyways....so whats the big deal? and given that you are such a disco-duck, not having spots would be so not urself :p

ahh ducky u r sooo pretty ! .. who ever sayz u r ugly is definetly blind or needs to get their eye sight checked !!!!

Sweetooooooo woh sub log tum say jealous hotay ho gein…

mein to keti hon aisay logo pur to mitti pao…:smash:

tobah

DD

Your relatives seem to be jealous of you.Dont even listen to them. And dont think too much over the spots thingy.They'll heal with time by themselves. :)

I missed to see your picture . Can i see that please?? ;)

Well ducky people are always tellin me that I got too much fat on me...I just say...when God was dishing out stuff He gave me a bit EXTRA of everything....it's a pity it isn't transferable else I would've given you my extra brain too! :D

Ignore them :slight_smile:

your aunties are missing the days when they had spots! might well be
Jealousy u see ;).

Lastknight did make a good point, don’t hate us all :~)

:flower1:

sighz i have spots too yaar :crying:

amreeka ka pani hi kharab hae jab se yahan ayi hon spots ho gayay hayn mooh pe pehle kabhee naheen thay :crying:

:grumpy:

and yeh i know what u mean the first thing i get when i land home, from my cousins n aunts is comments on my appearance so i’m used to it and kinda like it in fact makes me feel important and loved :hehe:

yaar forget what they say, eik kaan se suno aur doosri se nikal doh, but just concentrate oh the tips that they dish out :biggrin:

care to share some?

i think drinking lots of water and exercise is the best thing for spots :k:

besides that if u mix baysun with haldi and wash ur face with that paste it is good for spots too :slight_smile: