Re: So is it really true...
Marriage is, unfortunately, not a cure for a broken heart. All marriages have their ups and downs. In an up-moment, people tend to forget their past but in a down-moment the past comes haunting back. After a while in a marriage, people tend to overlook their partners' bright side and start seeing only the negative side. A huge effort is required to keep a positive outlook.
First of all you should realize that your are not a victim. Control your emotions. Don't let the emotions control you. The more you think of yourself as a victim of broken-love, the more you will get drawn into this vortex of negative emotions. Sit down and talk to yourself and tell yourself what this negativity is doing to you. Try not to associate every bad thing happening today to this past incident. Believe it is all in your mind now and you have the power to throw it out of your mind.
See a shrink if possible.