Re: So is it really true...
LydiaQureshi, you need to find closure. Do you know what it is? How to find it in a relationship? Maybe not that's why you are asking and pondering this thought. It will hunt you for the rest of your life if you don't find the closure in your first love/relationship, if you find it you will fall in love again and be peaceful about it.
I cannot give you the closure about your first love, but you know what happened and you have to find a way to balance the whole thing into reality. Let me give you another adivce, when you are finding the closure always remember it wasn't your fault. Might be his if he cheated or was into drugs etc. but if it is just the circumstances don't blame it on yourself.
Hope it helps :)