Re: So is anything off limits?
I guess there are a couple of things that would justify the limits we set; family tradition, culture, religion, money etc. or maybe a combination of those. it would depend on how much significance (or lack of) we give to these factors that would define our limits.
Culturally, some style of clothing may not be acceptable, however if the event is organised in a manner that allows for such fashion then it may be ok; i mean sleeveless clothing is a big no no in most paki families, even if the event is segregated, its still frowned up despite the fact that there is nothing wrong with it Islamically.