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oh really? maiN ne to ab tak bahoo ko apnii saas bulaate dekhaa hai...ab bahoo apnii ammi se ghar ke kaam to nahiiN karvaayegii na...is liye!!!
Ive never seen anyone calling their MIL in such a critical time. I have always seen girls call their own mothers because there is much more betakallufi there and daughters dont feel bad asking their mothers for favors or help.
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Oho yaar, main kab idead day rahi hoon. I just remembered this post :@:
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/gupshup-cafe/497140-leaving-parents-after-marriage.html#post8210318
Re: SO Ideally....
No ZK there is no ideal situation. If they don't have their in laws with them, they have other issues to fight over.
waisy bhi if girl is complaining about her in laws it does not mean that she is not happily married or not happy with her life.
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what does it mean then??? i guess its just natural then…like breathing, farting n stuff ?? 
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Its just natural to complain about little things like my MIL doesn’t allow me to cook food or she wants me to cook food for all family. If she gives her DIL responsibilities of home chores.. she will say “mujhy tu servant hi sumjh liya hai” .. If she doesn’t… she will say “mujhy ghar ka member sumjha hi kab hai meri saas ney, unhy aitebar hi nahin hai mujh per”. 
WE girls are like that “kisi haal main khush nahin” :shoaby:
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yup i dun live with my in-laws but it doesnt mean that i dun have anyyyy issues at all..ofcourse whene there is no MIL then u start over analyzing the poor hubby and issues are still here…life can never be perfect..