so how do u deal with a......

^ wow..thats a big change!..like 180 degrees..what happened?..try to talk to him b4 final divorce descision..i know it wont be easy but if u say first he was really happy and hten this happened now..some imisunderstanding must have happpened..write him a letter so u can express ur thoughts more clearly..tell him u want to meet him outside somewhree and talk..NOt at hsi house or ur house...try try try as mucha s u can ..dont do jaldbaazi in the divorce..it can happen anytime..later even..

how did ur marriage come about?..