When your husband comes home after work, exhausted, it’s NOT okay to make sarcastic comments to him or say things like “don’t eat it then.” And telling him he doesn’t earn enough? Seriously? That is a great way to damage his ego. From your previous threads, I understand you don’t get on with your MIL so do try to keep the peace with your husband or you will end up feeling very lonely, stuck in a country you don’t want to be in. If your husband arrives home from work in a bad mood, do not push his buttons and do not irritate him. If he says something to upset u, ignore it and move on.
Also, is it not possible to hire a cook so you don’t have to do the cooking?
As for the dragging you bit, I sincerely hope this was a one off for him. Anyway forget it and move on if you want to keep your marriage intact.