thing is, there are times, im doing alot, like il make sehri and sometimes il be in the kitceh making iftari- all iftari is is pakore and chai and dhai balley, which my sister in law makes…sometimes il even make the pakore, but thing is, whatever i make, my mil will never feel for me, that itni garmi mein im cooking, at 5month preg etc however her daughter can spend barely half hour in the kitchen and her mum makes a huge fuss, bichari itni gamri hai itna passeea agaya hoga and she will make someone go help her…no one helps me…or feels for me…and husband sees this. she also told her other son once hes home from work he works in another city, that no one else does anything in this house…which is a lie, i do what i can and im not even fasting yet i choose to make them sehri tc…
my husband does say if no one is appreciating ur efforts then donrt do it however if i dnt do it, then hel say why aint u doing something, and in all honesty it doesnt look nice for me to jsut sit around anyway…