Re: So he hit me…advise now.
Let’s see. Cooking and cleaning, putting up wtih in laws, taking care of kids etc…that’s all her obligations and she doesn’t deserve thanks. Cooking and cleaning isn’t so difficult and of course a guy’s family is doodh ke dhulay huway and they can never cause anybody any harm or even the slightest inconvenience. Every woman–including his wife and mother–gets pregnant and gives birth so its not like she’s doing something that nobody in teh world has done.
He–on the other hand–works for a living and financially supports his wife and kids!
on the other hand, if the woman was working AND doing all that you said above…she’s considered all sorts of bad things for working.
Damned if you do damned if you don’t 
Do you not see what’s so offensive about this comment?