Re: So he hit me…advise now.
I get the hint that you are not married and are commenting without having a clue about the little issues that can arise 
I suggest you comment once you find yourself in the situation to have any weight to what you are saying and only then can you prove yourself to be cool, calm and flexible. No one can ever be that calm or flexible to that extent. Either way…giving yourself up completely is also not the answer to a happy marriage…its compromise. But I see you are ready to spoil your husband and ruin his habits 
He will take you for granted and then you won’t be as flexible