So guys/dudes/men/boys please tell me

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How to earn your respect? and I am specifically asking from a girl’s perspective. How should a girl behave to earn respect from guys i.e. SO, potential spouses etc.

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She should just be herself!

lol just kidding

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In the pursue of acting moral or ethical, dont play too hard to catch. Figure out the right balance between being polite and appear shareef. Rudeness is not sharafat.

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if respect = lick ur toes........i don't know...

but generally........for respect.....you need to be straight forward...thats all......

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someone here will leave a sandwich comment

waits

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See this is my question what is this right balance?

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give respect to receive respect. be modest, be polite and be kind!

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You cant quantify a right balance. That depends upon the personalities of the guy and the gal.

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  • dont portray yourself bombshell, show some modesty and haya in eyes.
  • speak softly and calmly
  • show your tolerance and patience (guys like tolerant girls more than violent/wild haseena)
  • dont be clingy (guys hate slut kind of women when considering possible SO) (SO is considered wife/possible spouse material in GS dictionary)
  • dont talk dirty
  • always tell truth
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So in the same vein of questions - are guys bothered if its the girl who takes the initiative, to:

1) ask out on a date
2) calls him up
3) ask where is this relationship going - hey buddy are we getting married or not?

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  • dont portray yourself bombshell, show some modesty and haya in eyes. check.
  • speak softly and calmly oops.
  • show your tolerance and patience (guys like tolerant girls more than violent/wild haseena) oops 2.
  • dont be clingy (guys hate slut kind of women when considering possible SO) (SO is considered wife/possible spouse material in GS dictionary) check.
  • dont talk dirty check.
  • always tell truth check.

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60% :bummer:

So it must be hard to please the guys :chai:.**

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is not this what they are asking (directly or indirectly) from day 1, anyways?

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Um, not quite. Sometimes we don’t want them to ask because then we have to say no :sid:

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Wear a niqab so that after all the baaddd boysss have had their fun, they can ask their mummy ji to get you married to them :/

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i think you may have a point

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exactly. So girls, stop laughing hysterically with hands on both ears, when you see the prince charming (AKA Awais) for the first time.

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Ok that makes it more confusing if you say NO they think you are rude or playing hard to get, if you say YES then you will loose your respect in their eyes. Why are guys so complicated?? :smack:

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I can tell you how not to earn respect i.e by typing "guys/dudes/men/boys please tell me" , you should have just typed "Guys please tell me" :)

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hey, you cant have a diamond easily, You have to work for it

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Then why are we with someone when we are planning to say No??