Exactly! This was one of the main reason I posted the topic that in this situation a girl is DOING what guys do all the time. I felt a bit of pride in her that she is able to see past “today”.
As the discussion went on on this board, I wanted to discuss the issue of HER USING HIM! but I felt a bit shy… because everyone - EVERY SINGLE PERSON here said HE IS USING HER… How so? I think she WINS. It’s HER final say.
I wanted to argue on why having consensual sx is considered “being” used for a girl? The girl gets equal satisfaction and she is looking forward to it too. A guy whom she thinks can satisfy her and wants to continue with him for the purpose of sx, then why do people still say HE is USING her?
ya boyz? Care to explain ? You need to get the fact straight in your head that you can be USED.
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(lol - now don’t go attacking me. I said it already that I have gathered up much courage to say this in details).