Maybe I have a comprehension problem, but I don't see any of the girls or even the guys condoning this boy/man's behaviour. What everyone here has been saying is that it's a bit stupid of her to let him use her, when she knows that that is his only purpose. She doesn't come across as very smart to me. As I don't see the guy losing out on anything. And frankly I on't think he would care much if in the end she goes and marries someone else, because he's not concerned about owning her emotionally, he just wants to have easy sex and is getting it. So how is his ego going to get crushed?
I guess what my point is that when people say "it's a bit stupid of her to let him use her" - I don't understand why even a single person here say that he should NOT have done that in the FIRST place.
I am looking at it at a different perspective.
In this case it's a Hindu girl, but it should really not matter because emotions are emotions and love is love. If you agreed to be with someone then ideally committing to the person is honorable. These type of things happen even with Pakistani girls living in US or UK, not necessarily just with non-Pakistanis.
The guy does not commit to the girl, and in the end brings a slave for mom, who in turn is a also a virgin for himself.
How convenient for guys.
How come it's the girl who is ALWAYS told that she is "stupid to let him use her". Even she did not know that he will not commit later on.