small wedding in the sense of guests

hi

what would it look like if

you book a hall, photographers, makeup, expensive lehnga, good food, expensive jewellery ie have everything grand but only invite 20 people to your wedding?

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that would look insane :s
why not go for a restaurant corner like we book for family get together and they put up a separator

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We had 80 guests at our wedding, a lovely hall, great food, expensive jewelry and reasonably priced clothes. It looked alright!

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80 would be absolutely fine

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It would look fine.

I would not care much about how many people and would prefer to make it a grand event BUT small.

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80 sounds good!

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as long as its the most important 20 people in your life, then yea sure go for it :D

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i had all of that and 96 guests. it looked like a wedding!
i don't know why you wouldn't do those things.... in fact, with fewer guests its possible to do so much more than with 400 guests... your buck stretches a lot farther.

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i like all idea...but 20person will be only my brother & sisters from me & hubby side! so with 20 why i spend for wedding even! i mean very expencive! thats not making me feel wedding rather all first relations will be with us then i dont care many many ppl!

but always my mom saying something nice that main is ur guest rather all yoong ppl think abt their own only but Sunnate rasul was to serve ppl food to share ur happiness & barakt of life(surely not doing israf which usauly ppl do)
so she always saying if u want save save from all expences or skip wedding & just make a tea party for all or otherwise make a simpler party but serve ur relative whom r maybe r not as rich as urs or even bring any special gift...

since that time im thinking yes in past all abt wedding was guest & they were main now we mind all things except guest...actully we new generation r seeking for self-happiness ...

we r right or parents right surely i feel always balance is main wedding should serve ur relatives rather they r rich-meduim or poor with a nice food(not israf & show off) but same time should make a bride feel abt her daynot meaning spending too much...