Sleeping arrangement

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Re: Sleeping arrangement

@automne77

I have seen a lot of desis where parents don’t sleep in the same bed anymore, and it does bother me. Should I be worried ? I would like a setup where our kids can sleep in their own beds but be in the same room as us.

In your experiences what kind of setup is the best for both kids and parents.

You are right about the first part (ot of desis where parents don’t sleep in the same bed anymore) - but why does it bother you?

I think that its ok if kids want to sleep with their parents. We used to do that, and I think we turned out to be just fine. To me, my kids emotional security is way more important than some ‘approved method of raising them’. I know by the time they will hit preteen or even young adult age, they will start sleeping on their own. Till then, its fine with me.