Re: Skin whitening
**At hayatkhans
please talk to your husband about this on a serious note since its not to be taken lightly. he should realise its not good to hurt someones feelings like this, he should look at his own negative traits as well - no one's perfect and that includes him as well - no one (not even your husband) has the right to take your pride and dignity away from you! not only him but you should realise that as well. you cant let him torture you like this - there are so many dark girls in this world and i guess Allah made all kinds of human beings so that we realise everyones worth and appreciate them as they are!!! things like this annoy me like hell - when guys themselves are ugly but they tell their wives to make themselves perfect for their own selfish reasons so they can stay with them and if they dont then those cheap men find excuses to wander off and have affairs with other women ;S ... i have never let anyones cheap comments get into my head and when do try to repeat it themseleves i just tell them that just by the way they talk their own complexes are shown and it also shows how bad their minds think and ofcourse if they dont like something in me then why do they talk to me? :S why not find all plastic and perfect friends for them since they are so desperate - and trust me this shuts them off! but at times there are some B***** who arent affected then i just tell them to fight with ALLAH if they have issues and then i will see how Allah fixes them up :P this definately shuts them up ;)
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