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just because you like it, you made it comforting, user mature and wise? and all at the same time?
I like how the mature and wiser users are giving such comforting advice!
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yes
just because you like it, you made it comforting, user mature and wise? and all at the same time?
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:k:
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I like how the mature and wiser users are giving such comforting advice!
I just want to add though that if she doesn't want this relationship, and is only going to focus on what's not working and how she's not fulfilled, there is nothing you or he can do to make it work. She will find a way to destroy it one, way or another.
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I think to a particular extent, it may be nerves. It's good that I can assure her that things will get better. She is devastated that after the efforts they have put into getting to where they are, things stand thus that she finds herself unfullfiled afterwards. She worries about it becoming more emphatic over time and her resenting him eventually for it.
I just want to add though that if she doesn't want this relationship, and is only going to focus on what's not working and how she's not fulfilled, there is nothing you or he can do to make it work. She will find a way to destroy it one, way or another.
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i like this story, good first attempt. meeehhh 78/100.
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Its sad. Isn't it?
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You're confusing this thread, with the sex importance rating one.
i like this story, good first attempt. meeehhh 78/100.
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Ok so one gori told me that...she accidently got pregnant by this desi guy. And from there on..she went hormonal to the point..she wanted him
twice a day. So the lesson is..your friend is hormonal..aha!
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I would say becoming sexually compatible with one another takes time, patience, the right environment and lots of communication. And if she doesn't tell him what she wants - he'll never know! Also, does she know what pleases her and works for her? If so, she can tell him what she needs. If she doesn't know, she needs to do some soul searching for herself! If she's stressed and worried this will only hamper them and not help them. I mean men have a good time no matter what - but that's not always the case for women, right? Even if the guy has experience and knows what's worked for other women, that might not necessarily apply to her.
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her hormones have started playing games..she is pregnant indeed. her feelings have changed.hormone play.
p.s:iv noticed this...this phase of 22 till 24.girls get wierd.and rebellious.true.seriously. you should notice that too. teenage till 21...everything is easy..she goes with the flow...*22 till 24...she starts thinking and questioning! *
i guess after 5years of being faithful to one person,dont lose it all to a temporary feeling.
Thinking and questioning = weird and rebellious?
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You're confusing this thread, with the sex importance rating one.
I seriously doubt it.
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Skanky.
This.
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i like this story, good first attempt. meeehhh 78/100.
Please don't spoil it, I am trying hard to make myself believe that this a real life situation. In episode 2 in my head I was over at the lady's house to fix the cable. Can we work on that now Demesne?
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just because you like it, you made it comforting, user mature and wise? and all at the same time?
Sometimes people aren't looking for "ya haram" answers. They might be looking for a response that might actually help them get out of the predicament they're in.
To the OP:
Your friend probably glorified sex in her mind over the course of their relationship so much that she was expecting fireworks. And that didn't happen - obviously. It very rarely does in the beginning.
When you're just in it for looks or not taking things seriously...its okay to judge someone according to how they might be in the sack.
But when it comes to life changing decisions such as a marriage and possibly pregnancy...you cannot. You have to give someone a chance to be better. You also have to give yourself a chance to appreciate what they're offering. 4 months is nothing.
Your friend sounds immature, young and irresponsible. You cannot date someone for 5 years, get their whole family involved, THEN decide to mess around with them, maybe even get pregnant and THEN dump the guy because he isn't all that great in bed. Is she schizo or something?
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Rumor has it the Word of God recommends flogging for being this practical. If whips aren't readily available, superior quality throwing-acid should suffice.
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Rumor has it the Word of God recommends flogging for being this practical. If whips aren't readily available, superior quality throwing-acid should suffice.
Not cool...
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I wonder, if she leaves this man, and she finds someone else, she would again get physical with the second man before marriage to make sure she wouldn't be disappointed like with the first man!?
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Does Rumor say whether it should be on the guy or the girl?
Rumor has it the Word of God recommends flogging for being this practical. If whips aren't readily available, superior quality throwing-acid should suffice.
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