Re: Skanky or Practical
Sometimes people aren’t looking for “ya haram” answers. They might be looking for a response that might actually help them get out of the predicament they’re in.
To the OP:
Your friend probably glorified sex in her mind over the course of their relationship so much that she was expecting fireworks. And that didn’t happen - obviously. It very rarely does in the beginning.
When you’re just in it for looks or not taking things seriously…its okay to judge someone according to how they might be in the sack.
But when it comes to life changing decisions such as a marriage and possibly pregnancy…you cannot. You have to give someone a chance to be better. You also have to give yourself a chance to appreciate what they’re offering. 4 months is nothing.
Your friend sounds immature, young and irresponsible. You cannot date someone for 5 years, get their whole family involved, THEN decide to mess around with them, maybe even get pregnant and THEN dump the guy because he isn’t all that great in bed. Is she schizo or something?