Re: Skanky or Practical
It takes as long as it takes a couple to discuss what it is they want. If she is not saying anything to the guy, and just letting it go on the same way it was from the beginning, its not going to improve, and she already feels like it has gotten worse and its just going to keep getting worse, because her expectations keep going higher (thinking this next time will improve) and she keeps getting disappointed. He probably thinks that whatever he is doing is fine, when in actuality she is not liking it. She needs to speak up, and make her needs known if she wants to be satisfied. Otherwise this guy will continue doing what he has been doing, and its going to cause resentment. She already is torn about marrying him now. So if she wants to save this relationship, she needs to speak up now, because it wont get better until she says something to him.