Re: Six Months Later...
Pyaari83...thank you for at least making an effort to understand where i am coming from rather than the standard attack is seem to get...
Obviously over time trust and comfort grows between the two of you...but its not like you didnt know each other before you got together...naturally you were comfortable with them and trusted them...thats why you got with them...you dont become exclusive immediately...it takes time...
So surely once together you should feel free to express yourself and your likes and dislikes...obviously there are obvious things not to do but then there are not so obvious things that you get in trouble for...and the thing is you dont get in trouble for them when you do them...you get in trouble when she finally feels its ok to vent her anger at all the wrong things you have been doing over the last 6 months...you see how that can be annoying for a guy?...being judged for something i didnt even know was distressing you...
Contrary to what Sadiyah says...men tend to be a bit more clear about what they deem acceptable from the outset...im not saying all...but hey men tend not to hold back if the gal is doing something they arent comfortable with...and you tend to be aware of our boundaries during the whole courting process anyway so you tend to know the deal...gals just feel they need to hold back cos they dont want to piss you off...
All im saying its more annoying not saying anything than saying something...