I wouldn't destroy his marriage. I wouldn't tell his wife either. There's a chance she may even know about his cheap harkatein. Now, if a desi wifey had been behaving like this, her marriage might even result in a divorce. Oh, the double standards of our society.
I would, however, make a comment to his face about his behavior, something gloriously simple but snide. Something that would make him feel embarrassed. And it might not even make much of a difference in him. I'd do it because a perverse part of me would enjoy seeing him squirm.
Instead of making snide comments, how about taking the brother aside, and explaining to him the consequences of his actions, and why its wrong I'm assumming you're a guy. Chances are if you know about so do others...
If you're a girl then make the comment if it makes you feel better! Something about his wife being too good for him...
Instead of making snide comments, how about taking the brother aside, and explaining to him the consequences of his actions, and why its wrong I'm assumming you're a guy. Chances are if you know about so do others...
If you're a girl then make the comment if it makes you feel better! Something about his wife being too good for him...
You assume incorrectly. I'm a girl. And the comment about "His wife being too good for him" is a snide one and contradicts your scolding suggestion for a more civil approach.
Yup, I'd make a snide remark. It's fast and convenient. There's a chance I might see a shocked expression on the guy's face, that would be fun to watch. Evil but fun. Who knows? I might also do that if I were a guy. I don't believe that being snide should only be restricted to females. Now that's just sexist. But to each his own. If you prefer a more civil approach instead of a cheeky one, then by all means do so yourself.
Just if you were guy then giving advice would be approriate whereas if you're woman it's not really appropriate unless he's your brother or your dad or something...
So you're not really left with any choices, and if you want to make a snide remark to make yourself feel better than go for it...
And I don't know this guy so I can't carry out any approaches :)
But I never said that I knew him. Appropriate shamopriate. In the real world (and this can depend upon where you live as well) both genders come into contact with one another, have to work with each other, etc. Yes, they're non-mahram. But it all depends upon one's intentions as well. I personally don't see anything wrong with a woman giving advice to a guy or even putting him in his place if need be. I admire such courage.
Oh, I wouldn't make the snide remark to make myself feel better. I never said that either, lol. Another assumption on your part, sigh. I'd just do it for my own amusement.
fun/ make yourself feel better, one and the same thing really but i'll stick with fun if that's how you want it.
Even if you work with the opposite gender, talking about work is one thing and talking about personal marriage stuff is another and then talking about adultery... i'd stick with giving 70 excuses... and i won't derail thread into gender mixing...
ary wo bechara tu apna time pass karta hy karny doo
and if a bechari wife was to do the same for her business, you know flirt her way to getting more customers or just doing time pass? could the same be said?
I hope so or else it's just different rules for the two desi genders which totally sux big time.
these men that the TS is talking about seem like such slime especially when their marriages is going perfectly wonderfully, and even if some of them might be single, it's still sleazy what they're doing