Re: Sitting too close with cousins
Once married, you have to embrace the life you agreed you’d embrace, values of husbands family have to be honored. Or discuss with your better half if there is something different you’d like to do, as compared to his family.
Before getting engaged, I didn’t do dupatta on my head, but I saw that my mother in law to be was having full hijab and sister in laws had more modest pardah me. So here I am, I started doing dupatta on my head, unlike my other sisters. I received quite postive feedback. My fiance compliment me. But I was never asked to do it. I did it by choice.
If too close is not too close in your opinion, discuss with your better half and come at agreement. honor his insecurities, he’ll honor yours.