Re: Sisters
sometimes learning from mistakes is the best solution to a problem.. take the example of a little child.. we try and protect them from getting hurt/ frm not putting their fingers into sockets but they do it.. and then they learn their lessons when they hurt themselves..
sometimes putting a guard up can make others soo defensive that they forget that ur just out there to protect them.. build a relationship where u can openly talk abt guys.. let them tell u if theres someone theyre talking to and about what.. if theyre denying anything with regards to those pictures then tell them that u believe them but you are just out there to protect them from some idiot out there..
being elder u do want to set an example but by doing so your making them feel all closed-in. girls that age need confidence and putting ur trust in them will build that to an extent where they might even say no to wrongdoing themselves.. however staying on the lookout doesnt make u bad..