yes and I am the one causing rukus in her married life and I was the one who forced her mother in law out
that could so easily be becoz her susral are a real problem for her. but with friends like you who needs enemies. are you sure you aint just chumming with her sister only?
as for myself examined, so much heat haan?
nahee nahee no heat hon!
you have the right to your opinion…
lekin tum batao why are you so passionate on the issue?
and why does it bother you is someone i friends with your sibling? why would you need to get in the way of that.
Forcing your siblings to be friends with certain people and not others is right? Dont they have the right to pick who they hang out with?
Who are you tell them?
And chalo maan liya Im totally kissing the lil one’s ars… but doesnt it take two to tango? She must want to talk to me to call me or hang out with me.. nahee?
The issue of sisters and outside friends reminds me of something that happened with me and my sister.
A group of us girls went on holiday last year to Mexico. My sister's friend was extremely jealous that I was there, among many other issues she had going on. She couldn't handle that my sister was spending some quality time with me. She threw many fits during our trip which resulted in my sis putting an end to that friendship when we all got back. On the one hand, she tried giving my sister attitude for spending time with me. Then she tried getting 'revenge' by trying to befriend me after being mean to my sister and ignoring her. Nobody needs possessive, insecure and jealous friends like that.
People are so weird.
I understand that... but the lil one and I have had no contact after the wedding.. we arent friends..all she is to me is by friends sister who is a nice person.. I have no intentions of becomming her friend..
I was kinda hoping the other one moving away would distance us...
Iguess what hurts me most is that I genuinely did the whole mehdni thing for my friend and no strings attached.. and she totally misconstrewed it .. :(
its basics of frienship dear. we meet friends, thru them we meet other freinds. our networks grows or changes.
inspite of that most people like to at least protect or try to own thier family members from their friends. its irritating to find kay dost banaya to sala/salee family hee may ghusnay lag giya/gaee.
its sick i tell u, even tho i know u dont really realise this, becoz she herself is prob involving u into it too much.
even then it will be best if you try restricting to her only!
No offence, but your friend sounds a bit mental.
I have a younger sister who I am very close to, alhamdulillah. I'd be very happy if one of my friends tries to be extra nice to her and become friends with her. There's nothing to feel jealous about.
She sounds like a person who can never be happy regardless of what you do for her. I'm sure if you treat her sister like crap, she'd had something to say about that as well.
oh my goodnesss…
im speechless
lol shud i count myself lucky that i c these ppl only once a year?
and i used to be so jealous of them…
jealous? how? PM me?
Muniya, I get the feeling that you do stuff for friends and family and then you expect them to be 'ehsaan-mand' of you for sometime. Why do you do stuff and then keep mentioning it?. Keep in mind that most people don't like to be appreciative. So, keep your expectations low and you will always be happy.
shuduppp .. I know.. i expect back but only in love please. I try to stop but it just natural.. but I go through pains for people. I was taking my exams and had a perfect excuse to get out of this freaky wedding but I didnt. I bend backwards.. but you are right.. i shouldnt expect anything back.. POINT WELL TAKEN DARLING
besides in this case fudge her man … i had a blast at the meh. I looked hawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwttt! 
^^
haha yah she did
i got hte pix to prove it ppL!! :p
Go show her whos boss,
option 1 (girl fight)
option 2 (a Muhammad Ali punch square on the nose)
She's a bit of a dik really. They don't sound like your average sisters.
^^ yeh I know but I’ve decided to just remove myself from the situation.
This type of behavior isnt me and if she triggers it then I should know her influence on me isnt positive and Im should just leave her alone.
I think after 21 years of someone.. its just an adaath to dial them up..so It’ll be hard.. kinda like a divorce hain? but in the long run better for both of us.
Maybe this way she will go out and make new friends who dont know her past and wont give her and excuse, and she will learn to how to treat people better.
bauhat jaldee khiyal aaya. ikees saal ki aisee dost, can be quite cripplingly irreversible.
im starting to think that your not nice.
and your forgetting that you dont know only this incident there is allot more history between us.
nice or not nice, yr description of yr friend sounds too garbar. i mean agar itnee hee messed up hay, then its pretty easy to ignore idiots and move on. the very fact that u seem to be supposedly swerving on her so much, means she cant be such an idiot as u try to make her out to be.
and besides a lot of yr opinions seem to be coming from this high ground, that makes me think u love to only look at yr side or u aint getting her much this time.
in any case its kind of obvious u have made up yr mind on the future of yr friendship, the only thing i dont understand is what fun are you getting out of making a joke out of yr friends behavior here? i mean i know u dont like her much anymore, its obvious and u want to dump her and stuff laikin toa pooree zindagee ki katha suna kay u r trying to make it all sound like a very wise,reluctant and victimised decision.
its irritating to find people diss old friends like that and in such a one-sided, me-all-right-she-all-cracked kinda story.
sorry for hurting u but it just doesnt wash.
hmm well GS is my vent station. And I dont think you understand fully the point of the thread.. I said I didnt have a sister so maybe I was misunderstanding the situation. I dont know if you have ever had a friendship that was there before all your senses were .. but there is a certain attachment and you cant get rid of them as easily.. esp. if they are going though certain problems. You cant dessert people.. you have to put up with it .... hoping they get better...
And no I am not here making fun of her.. but you wouldnt understand how hurtful or irritating it can be when someone you love.. and yes I do love her...just doesnt get you and turns everything you say or do around to something evil. Im not perfect never said I was.. I know there are times we I expect to much from people and I admit it.
anywho, I need not clarify myself to you. I think you take this too personally because you've been in her shoes at some point.. in which case I am thankful for you opinion because I see her.