I love watching Tyra banks and Oprah both are great successful women. Today Tyra was talking about her Sisterhood Club sort of a thing which included 7 deadly sins
Betrayal
Gossip
Envy
Resentment
Competition
Manipulation
Judgment
The funny thing is! She is right we do feel it’s a competition between us and other girls out there.
-we won’t say a pleasant thing to another girl even if she looks like a drop dead beautiful.
I admit there have been times when I cant stand someone I will find out what is the negative thing about them that I can see and point that out instead of saying something nice.
I know i have full confidence in me etc and usually when i do meet another girl who are somewhat similar to me. I automatically have this nasty attitude towards them.
We all do this! Girls I am sure most of you won’t come forward because we are afraid to admit our own faults…
The most terrible thing that I think I have done is: At my old job -whenever i saw some other girl doing better job then me I wanted her to be out of it. I don’t know if I was insecure of my own capabilities etc? I would create a situation where the other girl would look bad and get her fired. If I found out they are doing something wrong I would tell my boss immediately. Or purposely stand in front of boss’s door and say something so the other girl could scream.
Tyra’s goal was to stop all this nonsense and be sisters … i thought to post something different then marriage related issues which do get boring after constantly reading same thing over and over
You know one thing my mom always asked other women (when they gossip about other women) was....why do women talk about other women instead of giving them support...for instance recently this woman said "oh the husband probably killed his son because the wife was stressing him out" can u believe that!!! So whenever a man commits murder....BLAME IT ON THE WIFE!!! sorry perhaps that is a bit off topic. :S
my mom has always taught me to be non-competitive with other girls and i can proudly say that im not. i can totally admire a beautiful girl and give credit where credit is due by saying SubhanAllah. However it's unfortunate that the majority of girls cant be this way.
Just grow up and act maturely. Think before you speak, understand that your words, thoughts and expressions show how you have been brought up. You really do not want to insult your family and their teachings just because you are stupid, now do you?!?
you know how the saying goes "the fruit (or is it apple?) doesnt fall too far from the tree" ....i am a firm believe of that saying.
also "if you want to know the kind of woman you will be married to.....look at her mom" that saying also applies to the way a girl will look yrs down the road.
^ i totally agree....
and being honest about it or not, why would girls do nasty things like these OMG....i hate it...and abt the looks thingy, one of my friends when i tell her she look pretty, she started making me feel as if im ugly...helll which i m NOT..infact she even made me feel that my +ive side is actually -ive and call me anorexic. and the thing with hanging with the not so hot friends is just so weird..
this is the same reason I DONT want to work for a female boss. I have to do a years training soon....and I am PRAYING the manager is not a woman! I remember last time I worked, the fat ugly supervisor woman used to be so *****y to all girls working there.....cuz she was insecure about herself.
^ And if she had actually been male, then wud u say u hated workin for all male bosses? just coz u had a crappy boss who HAPPENED to be one gender doesnt mean all male/female bosses will be insecure and *****y
