sister >< wife

Lifestyle Relationships
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Re: Re: sister >< wife

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*Originally posted by shahreen: *

I feel so sorry for my brothers.
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Oye I saw that .... (BTW, how similar are we :p )

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*Originally posted by Code_Red: *
It is all about afiliation. If you are close to your parents and you admire their qualities then you will look for some of these qualities in your future spouse.
On the other hand we are not really influenced by our siblings due to lesser age gap and so on and so forth. Although we may love them and care about them but admiring them is quite rare.
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Agree !!!

Similarly, I admire one of my cousion(married)...her way of talking, smiling, each and every thing of her, I just like the most. Therefore, I would like to have a wife just a copy of her...infact I would ask her to get a wife for me!:)

(By the way, is there any guppy a copy of her.....:D)

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Re: Re: sister >< wife

:rotfl:

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Thanks Fraudz! That could be an explanation.
Next time I hear someone say that I'll make sure that I ask them to explain themselves.

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Some say Caligula!!! :smash:

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^ huh ?

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google.com

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Re: sister >< wife

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*Originally posted by ShiNoO: *
Guys,

Just wondering, I've heard ppl say that guys, when looking for a partner, often go for girls who have similarities with their own sister(s).
Could be the way they look, dress, talk, think etc.

How much of that is true (for you personally)?
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I think it really depends on the values you appreciate in life. With a sister that takes care of a kid, goes to work full time, takes care of her household, cooks almost every desi dish I know of, some how manages to look 10 years younger then she is, and can be a fully socially active person in society, sure I would look for those qualities in another person. But thats only because they are the positive values imbibed in me by culture, enviroment and my interactions in life. If you are asking physically then I wouldnt know, but generally I have not seen any guy go... my sister only 4 ft tall... I would like a wife thats just as short? I think we only look at the positive aspects whenever we are comparing attributes and hindsight is always 20/20

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I doubt he was the only one.

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This theory doesnt apply on me atleast.

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a wrong wrong theory… :nook:

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:smiley:

finally some one who put it all in simple understandeble words :smiley:

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I had a very embarrassing incident happen in the car one day. I was with mom and eldest bhai and we were driving and talking of rishtas. And then my MOM (horror of horrors) tells my bhai that "dont you know, Munni is looking for someone who is similar to you in a rishta". I was so embarrassed. But its kinda true in my case, although there are plenty traits of theirs I dont particularly admire. Generally though I notice I am attracted to guys that have qualities similar to all my bhai's and dad, but particularly my bhai's.

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it's just that children develop a deep relationship with their parents n family(brothers n sisters)..... n in da future they feel more comfortable being wid ppl who have the same qualities.....etc...

but not necessarily they go for ppl like brothers or sisters or parents....

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so this means that all the girls who call me bhai have some ulterior motives? no?

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This is 2 all da galz who call other guppy brothers - Grow up.

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ki huwa mal1k bhai :hehe: :halo:

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I am the youngest in the family and even though I love my elder siblings they usually have bullied me around. So, for me to want someone similar in habits to my elder sister(s), would be like 'aa bail mujhay mar'

When looking for a spouse, one usually has a realistic vision from what they know about the other gender. Like, if one's mother, sisters, cousins, aunts etc. know cooking as their second nature, he will find it very odd for a girl to not know it. My wife always find it hard to believe that I can vacuum the house, mainly because her brother or her cousins had never done it.

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My fiance has been one of the favorite kids of my mother from years. He adores my mom also. He looked for similarities that my mom and i shared and thats how he fell for me

sharmaying

ofcourse he thought about several other things. I warned him too but he took the challenge.

Its hard to make a deicision about marriage. You would spend your entire life with this person . Its liek you need to the person inside out. Once you make a commitment its very hard to go back. Its even harder when you have freakin 4 options. I remember i put on a piece of paper what i want and what my soul is seeking for. *sigh those several sleepless nights and walks at night....

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:hehe:

lussi u wish..lolz!!