Re: Singledom
Thats right. But when they are done with the marriage of their daughters, they immediately turn to those who have not been successful in marrying off their daughters. No one is able to understand what my family had been going through after my dad passed away. How can they compare their ‘normal’ situation with my ‘not-so-normal’ situation and cause pain to my mom? My mom feels the pressure when one of my younger cousins gets married.
You are right. We should become insensititve to what others think or say about us. Whatever is meant to happen will happen and at a time when it is destined to happen. So why bother what others think. Every girl has different qismat. One girl in a family can get married at a very young age while the other can take ages to find a suitable match. No one should degrade that girl and the girl should also not go into depression since its her qismat and Allah must have something in store for her. Its like making fun of someone with darker complexion, its no fault of his/ her that Allah has given him/ her such a complexion.