Re: Single Pakistani Women on their Own
I think alot really depends on the woman herself ...
I have two examples :
A pakistani girl, moved to the UK for studies .. later got on a job and started living a good life away from family. Soon she started going to clubs , wearing clothes that would leave her half naked, be out of the house until late night , started smoking as well occasionally and had boy visitors to her apartment whome she used to class as friends .
she used to complain immensely that people class her as "rough" and "has character issues" ..when clearly all she was doing was living an independent life !
On the other hand, another girl , comes to the UK in similar situation, gets a job and lives on her own . But doesnt forget her values, dresses appropriately, lets people know around her she has well guarded boundaries and not everyone can come to her place, had a life that revolved around work and home , and occasional outing with friends but never late out nights ....
I always heard her saying that she got proposals where she was told , she was liked coz she had strong character and morals .
Women moving out on their own , is not wrong in my opinion, but how she handles her independence , makes all the different in the world .