Single Pakistani Girls Living on Their Own

Lifestyle Relationships
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Originally posted by FunkyDesi:
Let's not forget guys are more involved in drinking and fooling around, but Pakistani parents don't think 2wice about "not" sending thr sons to Umreeka or Englaand, but oh Lord, just even mention that you're daughter wants to abroad for studies and evrybody gives you those weird loox! Hypocrites!
Nobody ever asks how and why their **son is living away from home and I know what kind of lifestyle they have! Phuuleeeeze! They fool around like hell in t/ West, and then expect Mommy to go look for an 18 yr old virgin! Jerks.**
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i completely agree with u

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Originally posted by FunkyDesi:
Let's not forget guys are more involved in drinking and fooling around, but Pakistani parents don't think 2wice about "not" sending thr sons to Umreeka or Englaand, but oh Lord, just even mention that you're daughter wants to abroad for studies and evrybody gives you those weird loox! Hypocrites!
Nobody ever asks how and why their **son is living away from home and I know what kind of lifestyle they have! Phuuleeeeze! They fool around like hell in t/ West, and then expect Mommy to go look for an 18 yr old virgin! Jerks.**
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Funky,

Unless you resent the arrangement its not called for to criticize the system.I would much rather keep my sheltered existence than live by myself for what.Yes anything can happen in life & people can rise to the occasion of returning there taxes,or taking there own garbage out ,but it dioesnt mean that i would like to go to the boot camp too,for god knows when i have to wrestle a mugger or rapist in the back alley of Harlem???

Yes boys some can be drunkard druggy & gay & loafer so what,are we going to compete with them.No matter what the consequenceses of a woman drinking drugging & living alone is fargreater & more injurious than that of boy.A woman breaks down under pressure too.
If you are willing to take the option of being independent ,its another thing ,but im not in the race for such unless some really inevitable circumstanceses demand it ,then i can take care of myself ,thankyou.

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Zohra quote: **Funky,
Unless you resent the arrangement its not called for to criticize the system.I would much rather keep my sheltered existence than live by myself for what.Yes anything can happen in life & people can rise to the occasion of returning there taxes,or taking there own garbage out ,but it dioesnt mean that i would like to go to the boot camp too,for god knows when i have to wrestle a mugger or rapist in the back alley of Harlem???

Yes boys some can be drunkard druggy & gay & loafer so what,are we going to compete with them.No matter what the consequenceses of a woman drinking drugging & living alone is fargreater & more injurious than that of boy.A woman breaks down under pressure too.
If you are willing to take the option of being independent ,its another thing ,but im not in the race for such unless some really inevitable circumstanceses demand it ,then i can take care of myself ,thankyou**

Jeez Zohra!!! why are you getting soo defensive?? Where did I say girls have to compete w/ boys?? (Although in real world they are and have to but that's another story). I do have a question why is it ok to send a guy out to live by himeslf and nobody bats an eye but even think of sending your daughter for education (yes girls have that right too) and it becomes a big deal!

If you have some sort of a complex w/ women who do not live as sheltered a lifestyle as yourself, plss, dont twist what I'm trying to say here. And by criticizing if you mean I am against a system where it is okay for moms and sisters of t/ guy to hunt for an 18 yr old (who are not that mature and in their words are much easier to dominate) girl for ther sons and bros' who are busy screwing around w/ different girls every week if not every day. I guess that is okay w/ you, but sure isn't w/ me and a lot of other self respecting girls. To each their own!!
Iam glad for you that you can take care of yourself, altho how do you know, since as you admitted that you have lived a very sheltered life, but that again is a different story. But either way, good for you!

Alto, you do say :"A woman breaks down under pressure too." I believe you are what you say. So which is it?? You either can take care of yourself, or you braek down under pressure?/ Make up yur mind girllll!!

It's women like yourself who give a bad name to t/ word "housewife" as earlier in a different thread some1 had mentioned that ppl like you are jealous of other women's confident and not soo sheltered lifestyle and hence are always twisting everything they say and do becuz of thr own insecurities and lack of confidence!!

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Khanjii quote: **FunkyDesi baji, I don’t understand do u mean that there are people who are into pork and stuff in pakistan. Although, I agree that it depends on your upbringing, I must say that living ALONE has some draw backs as the society, especially in the west, has some effect on you and the chances are high that you can go into bad habits as we are not perfect and certainly not prophets. **

Khanjii, common, we both know if ppl want to drink or fool around (meaning screwing around w/ different people every) they can and will even in Pakistan, Altho, socially it is not so acceptable as it is out here in t/ West and therefore we see more of it w/ ppl living here. Bottom line is as Y2 said “live responsibly”.

P.S. Now do tell Funky Desi Bajii what “effects” and “bad habits” have you developed since you left Pakistan for good ol’ Scotland

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Promise won’t tell nobody

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Geez what's so controversial about single Paki girls living on their own. Shouldn't this discussion be in the General room.

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[This message has been edited by FunkyDesi (edited July 17, 2001).]**
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Funky,

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I know your type of Pakistani girls who are sold out to the Western concept of life.Good luck,but sorry ,i dont buy your weak ,illogical & selfish argument.Join the another funky christian style boys you know so well ,who sleep with girls every week if not every day .You are crazy.

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“o have a question why is it ok to send a guy out to live by himeslf and nobody bats an eye but even think of sending your daughter for education (yes girls have that right too) and it becomes a big deal!”]

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Who told you i m less educated than you or that i have lived a sheltered life ?? You are so full of yourself na Why do you think girls study in Girls college live in girls hostel , & some of the higher educated women are from such institution than GCE. o level girls who live in ywca & do receptionist/sec. type work who talk like you under assumption that boys are drinking & marrying 18yrs left & right ,Jelous maybe ,but not true

"I am against a system where it is okay for moms and sisters of t/ guy to hunt for an 18 yr old (who are not that mature and in their words are much easier to dominate) girl for ther "]

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So funky your goal is to dominate over others for generation of supression that you feel you have been subjected to.You are going to be mom & sister if you really are a woman Dont conjure all traditional marriage are with 18 in fact i havent seen any in this generation.

"sons and bros’ who are busy screwing around w/ different girls every week if not every day. I guess that is okay w/ you, but sure isn’t w/ me and a lot of other self respecting girls. To each their own!!']

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Funky ,is your brother doing with girls every day .Where is your source of information Talk about stereotyping women dont be hypocrite & stereotype men.

"Iam glad for you that you can take care of yourself, altho how do you know, since as you admitted that you have lived a very sheltered life, but that again is a different story. But either way, good for you! Alto, you do say :“A woman breaks down under pressure too.” I believe you are what you say. So which is it?? You either can take care of yourself, or you braek down under pressure?/ Make up yur mind "]

Yes genius ,go read my post & dont missread sentence just as you have this world.I never said about my life in particular & u ASS..u. & .ME You cant be what i say ,b/c what i say is knowledge & it can be acquired unlike your inability to not be able to get education unless you can study in America away from home in Pakistan.What big deal you’ll be i have seen.3 divorceses & 3 kids to a single mom .Isnt that the majority of Funky are like ???

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Zohra quote: "**Funky ,is your brother doing with girls every day **.Where is your source of information Talk about stereotyping women dont be hypocrite & stereotype men.

Yes genius ,go read my post & dont missread sentence just as you have this world.I never said about my life in particular **& u ASS..u. & **.ME You cant be what i say ,b/c what i say is knowledge & it can be acquired unlike your inability to not be able to get education unless you can study in America away from home in Pakistan.What big deal you’ll be i have seen.3 divorceses & 3 kids to a single mom .Isnt that the majority of Funky are like ???"

You live in a small world Zohra!
Never, ever have I brought any1’s family into my discussions and you were no xception. Where did I single out or question your family and it’s lifestyle. I guess aap abhii naii naii aai hain, therefore you need some time to learn t/ ettiquettes of a discussion/ debate.

Also, if you claim to be so educated plsss, try to reflect in your future debates, cuz cursing sum1 is not t/ best way to do so! Learn to mind your language.

As to t/ rest of your babble, aside from t/ fact you are abusive and need to learn t/ etiquttes of a discussion, it is not worth debating, cuz in one post you say one thing and in t/ very next you contradict yourself, and I can’t be bothered by people like you

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Muni quote: Geez what’s so controversial about single Paki girls living on their own. Shouldn’t this discussion be in the General room.

Exactly my point!! Some people just have too much time

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Funky and Farhina,

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for living alone. It takes guts and I’m glad you haven’t succumbed to silly things Paki people say.

Its really hard to live alone, I would be extremely lonely if I didn’t have my roomies. God Bless good friends!

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funky desi and zohra: please just agree to disagree.

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How abt this.. Paki gals frm abroad living on thr own in pakistan

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few of whom ive met.. are pretty cool..

^-Frankly ma dear, I really dont give a damn.-^

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Thank you Muni. Love you girlfriend.