in relationships what makes a person sincere???
and say someone had low confidence basically they didnot think they could do anything themselves so they looked at others for support and was kind of needy are they not sincere?
basically is believing in yourself a sign of a sincere person?
confidence is sincerity are different things..
a confident person can be insincere
and a sincere person can be inconfident
If the relationship is based on one person being needy and dependent than it is hard to say if it is more a need than love. When two completely independent strong people get together than it is based on love. Many need a naukrani because they cant’t cook and clean and many need financial support and man just marry because it is tradition.
Agree with @NomiCA above.
Also, I don?t think being dependent is a bad thing at all in a relationship. Even better if it is some sort of a healthy codependence.
Don’t think there’s a correlation between sincerity and confidence. Good liars can be extremely confident, needy people can be too scared to stray.
You can judge sincerity by seeing if words match actions.
They kept women sheltered and financially, psychologically emotionally dependent for thousands of years and what an effective way of controlling and exploiting. It should be somone really wants to be with you and not has to be. Both my wife and i don’t have to but like to and want to be with each other. Majority of females here have their own money and will only go for quality males and not be naukranis.
Just because someone earns doesn?t protect them from exploitation. There are plenty of people who earn and are still exploited big time. That?s why being with the right person is far more important than such simplistic rhetoric. Also it?s more about mindset if someone sees staying at home full time and taking care of household stuff for their family as being a naukar.
Being confident and sincere are not related at all… some people cheat with great confidence 
Lack of respect, appreciation, and expectations actually make many wives lower than a naukar. I see many loveless marriages where guys are jerks to their wives, at least a nauker can laat maar on the naukri and has fixed responsibilities.
Thriving relationships are not based on dependence but on love.
Just ask yourself if a smart, educated, beautiful, strong independent woman who has a sense of adventure is full of life and is expecting her partner to add excitement and thrill to her life would chose you?
Your imaginary scenario and the impeccable woman in it got me thinking. Since she is also smart, I think she?ll not choose any individual for that matter but will join some adventure club to add that excitement and thrill to her life. But if she insists on choosing an individual, perhaps she will be better off with a male escort. He won?t pester her with anything that she doesn?t want to do. It?ll be just excitement and thrill for as long as she pleases.
I know scores of women like that who do like the warmth and commitment of a relationship, also will raise kids and be committed and their husbands have lot to offer also. Nothing imaginary here. The previous coach Joanne f was an athlete who competed internationally, her husband a very good looking man also had done physed in Uni, teaches survival to coast guards etc. They have two lovely kids and are very committed and the relationship is based on equality, respect and love. there are no gender roles, they both make money and equally share in chores. Travel the world and have a thriving relationship. I know scores of relationships like these. I know people who subscribe to primitive philosophy are not capable of comprehending gender equality and mutual respect.
I have failed to understand this word. when you are sincere people doubt and disgrace you and when you are insincere people chase you for no reason