Silent reader in need of advice. Please help!

[madz410]

Re: Silent reader in need of advice. Please help!

@Sehrysh

You’ve answered your own question: if you ask whether a friendship is worth saving, then it likely isn’t.

All of us grow and change with time and some friendships don’t stand up to the test of time since the two people grow and change in ways where they have little in common. The way you’ve described this friendship, your friend is a taker more than a giver - I’d start to distance myself from her since inevitably when you have your rukhsati, you’ll have even less time for her. Better you ease out of this relationship now.

Sehrysh- thank you so much for your reply and your kind advice. I guess I need to take a step back and take a break from this friendship which has pretty much drained me by now.