silence is the best medicine - both my devarani’s come from similar backgrounds.. and managed to get along very well. I on the other hand come from a very different upbringing and was married into the family not knowing anyone - whenever it came to conflicts I stayed away and managed to stay quiet.. I’d talk to my husband and let him know but I wouldnt say anything myself. First things first.. your not living with them, if you had been it would have been different.. milo to aise milo ke kabhi phir nahi milo gi and when they come over entertain like you might not live to do it again.
thanks mysti for ur comment…im glad someone is being decent.
iv never said anythin to anyone from day one. never, always been good with them but the fact taht the SIL think they can say what they like baffles me, when i have never made a comment to them