sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty

[mahool]

So @Bobby1 uncle dosn’t know “sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty”…

Who can translate this idiom for him?

@mahool

Bobby Uncle… Let your kid explore by himself… sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty…

@Bobby1

I do want him to be a straight up man with no lies and deceptions and his girl is amazing and I wouldn’t want my boys to hurt anyone’s feelings. The reason I am concerned is because I know that they are perfect for each other and if he blows it he will never get such a match. They exercised running up the 230 steps on the river valley several times, he is doing his lifeguard course, she has already done it. They go to the gym together. She hunts and is a black belt second degree. Is family oriented, is polite to us etc. Eastern Europeans have good values

My wife’s nephew got under pressure from his mom and let his soulmate go and is now a depressed young man even after 10yrs.

I did not understand the kahawat, please explain as I love them.

@muqawwee123 @SID_NY @redvelvet @Tahurra @Cheegum

[mahool]

Re: sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty

I want to share a sher ... Let see if Bobby Uncle get a clue....

Girte hain sheh sawar maidan e jang main
woh tifal hi kiya gire jo ghutno kay bal chala karte

[Bobby1]

Re: sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty

We have a similar saying I never lose I either learn from my mistake or win
This society is very unforgiving and the slightest mistake will ruin your life
I don't believe in pseudo heroism I know many cultures talk real big but actions don't match words
You must learn to follow before you can lead

[Tahurra]

Re: sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty

Mujhe khudh nahi pata sikhy? Or is it sokhy
Pod tu i think podey ko kehty hain

[mahool]

Re: sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty

Mujhe khudh nahi pata sikhy? Or is it sokhy Pod tu i think podey ko kehty hain

seekhna... to learn...

[Bobby1]

Re: sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty

I think it means you have train before you sit on the throne , that is what I tell him

[SindSagar]

Re: sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty

@mahool

So @Bobby1 uncle dosn't know "sikhay pod darbar nahi charha karty"...

Who can translate this idiom for him?

@muqawwee123 @SID_NY @redvelvet @Tahurra

@Cheegum

"sikhay/sookhay pod darbar nahi charha karty" this should actually be Sookkay Pod darbar nahi charha kartay

and it means Dry plants cannot climb up a Darbar/Wall