sigh hu's wrong here ?

okayy…
okay theres this girl teek hai she’s from america okay she just broke up with her bf of 7 mnths he was her first bf she had gotten into a lot of trouble because of him and wen things got tough he just left…she had lost her mind wasnt thinking straight anymore..well she moved to pakistan den started a new school still wasnt over her ex ..met another guy …she didnt fancy him but he fancied her ..they became good frnds on valentines day some guy gave her flowers which she accepted thinking no big deal however in pakistan aparently it is ? and the guy her frnd lets call him zain got furious he punched the school gate and went ina mood
later on someone told her abt zains reaction she started to feel guilty everyone arnd her stated to make her feel guilty so she tried to apoligise for accepting theflowers but he ignored her and went home next day she tried to speak to hima nd he confessed he liked/loved her she didnt yet she thought whatta heck if it’ll help her gte over her ex … :frowning: …so she said she liked him back
so they became a couple he adored herrr got her a fone a sim gifts etc etc …her parents were reallie strict and didnt allow her to go anywhere or talk on the fone to guys etc etc one day her secret fone got caught :hayaa: HELL BROKE LOOSE AT HER HOUSE!!! her parents didnt let her go back to school they grounded her took away all her freedom … basically he girla nd zain lost all contact …
wen the new school year started she went to a diff school she found a way to contact zain she sent him an email turned out he was still waiting for her so they continued there relationship through emails … there relationship lasted for two yearss during dose two years she got caught time after time by her parents and got beaten upp wen she couldnt take da pressure anymre she tried breaking up with him for small reasons but he wouldnt leave her she told him she wasnt the same sect as him that shook him a bit because he wasnta ware of this but that still didnt get him to leave he was dat obsessed with her he started talking abt marriage mean while she got a rishta …she told him abt itgt he went crazyy she told him she’d try to get outta it and made it look like she was trying yet in real she wasnt because she kneww it was the right thing to do there parents would never allow them to be together so she got engaged to this other guy ,arriae fixed for 6 mnthes later …zain went nuts hesent a long email saying ive waited for u for so long it didnt matter to me if we couldnt meet ive been here ansd ure just gna leave etcetc…

was da girl reli wrong seeing her circumstances ..that
she would get in trouble by her parents couldnt meet she hadnt seen him since she changed schools and too much tention plusss
diff sects .. :frowning:

Re: sigh hu's wrong here ?

she should dump both the engaged party and zain.. then she should move back to wherever she came from and get another boyfriend. let the bf use her again and then she should move to another country and get another one..etc

BUT i guess she realize that her parents are right and she should obey her parents and not her stupid mentality. so forget zain n bf #1 and be happy with the husband to be.

Re: sigh hu's wrong here ?

hmmmm ... trueeee :(

Re: sigh hu’s wrong here ?

girls got a problem with making her mind .. if she wanted to be with the previous guy i,e the first one who left her then she shud have tried to contact the guy .. as what the hell is he doing .. if he wasnt comited then .. wud have moved on .. anyhow she moved on .. tried to .. bt now .. if she was still in love with the prevvious guy .. why didnt she make her intentions clear to the guy after the flower giving event.. when asked or questioned .. what the hell is going on .. she lead zain on .. it aint zains fault ..

secondlyy .. parents strict or no strict … she shud have kept her on goings in check with some one .. if soething went down ..someone cud back her up .

but i think .. sect wise … in pak makes a big difference … so maybe the gurl thought wise .. and moved on to get engaged .. but shud hve somehw told zain thas it its over and sorry etc ..and he just got lead on and didnt knw what wud hv append …:hmmm:

Re: sigh hu's wrong here ?

hmm tue she shudnt off but wen ev she triedd to talk to him ableaving or breaking up he'd go pyscho

Re: sigh hu's wrong here ?

She wasn't serious with Zain in the first place, shows her intentions right there.

She should forget about whatever happened, and focus on her future now without looking back or having regrets or having second thoughts.

Re: sigh hu's wrong here ?

And some people call the relatively strict anti-dating anti-bf/gf attitude in Pakistan as suffocating. I know lots of people going through terrible worries due to this "liberal" attitude of dating and having pre-marital relationships.