Sickness sensitivities and in laws

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Re: Sickness sensitivities and in laws

@naima27

Feeling a bit upset.
Have been unwell for last few days. My face is covered in ugly rashes and scabs and have low energy. Should be ok in a week or two but for the time being I look pretty horrible.
Some relatives from my in laws just came over for five mins (never met them before** as I got married recently**) and asked to see me to which my mother in law said
oh no she won’t see you she gets anxious if even my sister comes over and yesterday I asked her to come on Skype to talk to my daughter and she would t even do that.
I felt like this was a bit of a harsh way to talk about me to someone who doesn’t know me and makes it sound like I’m silly for not wanting to see people when I’m unwell (and it’s not a headache or cold it’s something that has affected my appearance a lot) Also a bit insensitive to the fact that I am not well. She could have just said she’s not well and it’s not the best time to see her (they know I’m sick and what the issue is) I felt like all the other stuff was so unecessary especially about Skype and exaggerating that I panic if her sister is there (last time their family was over I just asked if it was khaloo only coming or Khala and family) I never expected her to talk about me to other people in a bad way so I guess I’m a bit shocked but then maybe I’m just being sensitive because I am ill and miserable. Would you girls be upset about this?

something does not seem right unless I am missing something…