sick ov my husband's behaviour

[rizHach]

Re: sick ov my husband’s behaviour

@Hulahoop_Queen

noone asked you to read her “blah” if your eyes were hurting. Seriously!

best strategy to deal with such people is to try to ignore their mean remarks like him calling you jaahil. when he sees you get intimidated, he does it even more. If you were a confident and happy person, think about all the stuff that made you happy and confident and try to achieve that state again rather than pleasing him. That doesnt mean you dont fulfill your responsibilities as a wife, but also make effort to keep yourself happy. Take courses, work, volunteer and make yourself that strong woman you used to be.

HQ, thnku so mch 4 sch a kind words. i thnk u r rite, infct v rite.

@Ma_Mooli

Is counselling not an option?

MM, i hv alrdy spoken 2 hm abou conselling a yr bck n he said tome is ke zarorat ho ge moje nihi he

u knw al, d thng is it ws our love marriage n i cnvnced my family 4 tht . thy wr nt ready 4 ths marriage as i ws single he alredy married bt i cnvnced my family thts y i cnt even share ma probs wth ma own family i dnt want 2 hear k hum ne mana keya tha etc. leaving him seems to me a vry huge step n i dnt hv tht guts n smtimes i feel mybe he needs me more than i do him.