Why should you be nice to them? Especially if they make your life miserable?
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Ummm.... depends on the extent of misery they're causing.
We (4 siblings) used to fight and argue like anything, but now MashaAllah we're best of friends (after each one got older and married :p).
They're your own blood after all and you'll always forgive and forget later in life.
No need to be nice if you don't want to, but don't be evil too... just my two cents :)
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Oh I am never evil with anyone for that matter. No matter what people do with me or how they treat me. I am a nice person lol! :D but problem is my siblings are very annoying!! They make me angry at every possible moment!! I don't know how I can avoid this!
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Count to 100 and instead of yelling, give them an evil look when they’re being extra annoying ![]()
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LOL I yelled at them and closed the door. I love them but they get on my nerves!!! I wonder if I am not the only one who experiences torture being the eldest!
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i say u do target practicing with them
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I don't wanna kill them dude! :O They are after all my siblings, my blood. Just the need to tone down the being annoying thing a bit.
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well , siblings are family . Family stands besides when most abandons you.
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Then again there are cases where family abandons you and you find solace with strangers and friends. Anyway.
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^Nah, not in the long run.... at least not when they really love you and are not selfish by nature :) There are exceptions though, unfortunately.
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So many times sons leave their family house, don’t talk to their dads, girls run away from home, family kicks you out and doesn’t wanna do anything with you and stuff. Anyway the topic was siblings! ![]()
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You dont have to love your siblings or be nice to them. But by nature you are related to them so you are sentimental towards them as well. I bet if some of us trashed them, you would be pissed as us, even if you are pissed at them now, right :p
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The answer to that is never let anything cross a line when it comes to siblings. Never let anything cross a point where the argument or something worsens. ![]()
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LOL! If anyone said anything bad about my siblings or even laid a finger on them, I will kick the living daylights out of them. No one says anything about my siblings ![]()
Yeah that is true I guess!
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I used to have a full time rumble with my sibling
even till one of one was fully exhausted and mom come to get us apart.
but i guess its an age factor - when you are in b/w 14~20
when you are trying to get out of home / meet new people / try to impress them / and your siblings annoy you / tease you !!
so i guess - these thing your will recall when you will grow up ...
i would suggest that you start enjoying them :D
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wow it’s gonna be hard to enjoy them shouting at me and throwing stuff at me:hmmm: i’ll enjoy, just that i don’t get hurt or something!
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how old are they ?
you cant catch some thing coming at you and just put it on your side ?
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That is poor upbringing, bad moral values and horrible Tarbeyaat. That is just a ****ed up family.
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True I guess.
That is poor upbringing, bad moral values and horrible Tarbeyaat. That is just a ****ed up family.
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Age range of 20-8 years old. All younger than me! LOL I am not playing catch catch with them ![]()