its bad enough that im leaving and i feel depressed that i wont be so much part of the family as before, and i wont be part of the daily life with my sisters, i feel crap that we wont be able to have our daily chats every night which sometimes go on so much we dont get any sleep, but you know wats worse....the emotions that the daughters family go through when u leave,
i mean for the guys family they gain a new person, they are excited about this new experience, and you yourself will be, starting your life with your hubby and gaining all these new members who will give you love and respect inshallah. but for the girls family, well its quite sad :( i remember when my older sis got married and when it was her rukhsati, it was horrible, coz when we all went home we could just feel her absence,the absence of that one person changed the whole atmosphere at home, there was no 'ronak' so to speak, everything just seemed dull and dreary and everything just reminded me of her, my mind was full or the memories we shared, even now sometimes i think how it was so much fun to have her here with us but i suppose people move on, life goes goes on, but sometimes you wish it didnt have to!
I think love for your family is what really makes a difference. I mean, even if you don’t talk much to your family but still spend time with them and love them then it does make a difference.
Right now I can call up my brother, bug him all I want. But I know after he and I start leading our married lives in separate parts of the country, my and his priorities will change :(
My sis says she cant wait for me to get married so she can our room to her self! :(
Although the three of us are real close MasahaAllah, but i do realise that once we all get married and have our own families, priorities do change. I am not looking forward to that but thats part of life i guess!
same here Ira, my sisters keep saying cant wait till u leave..we’re gonna do this do that blah blah take your room..sell you car LOL. but i know when the time comes they will feel it coz we are very close mashAllah.