Re: siblings/family members moving back to pakistan
^ yeah its more the stress of being there. She along with my bhabhi and two nieces were there just for 5 weeks, got back a day ago, and i was stressed constantly due the sitation there... shukar hai they didnt go out (moreso cus they couldnt with the kids) but still ya know..
I know, shes making the right decision according to what she thinks... she has to and her fiance have to think about their life ahead.. and im sure they have thought things through.. its still a hard choice ya know... especially when u know ur kids will be growing up safe (safer) than her kids there with a lot more facilities if things ever go wrong.. its hard.
U want the best for ur siblings... u want them to have everything u could think of, more than what u have got... khair, im sure there are a lot of people in the same boat.
My inlaws are like ur parents too.. they move between Aus (on visit visas) to abu dhabi to pakistan.. and when in pakistan, its just stress again.
When it comes to parents, the stress is more about their health and how much care they can get in an emergency situation...