Shut My Mouth

Re: Shut My Mouth

Just because the mother is a 'hypocrite', it doesn't mean you should judge her children. The girl may have a boyfriend but what if she's seeing someone with the intention of marriage? That's very common now, isn't it. In any case, it is their personal family matter. If you don't like the woman's attitude, just stay away from her. Why does it matter if she brought her kids to your workshop or not? She's a mother, she knows better how to raise them.

I have come across women here who criticized other kids in the masjid for everything possible, and their own kids were involved in wrong things like drugs, alcohol, sleeping around, etc. And even though that pissed me off as well as my friends who these aunties used to bother, none of us wanted to be on the same level as them or humiliate them or their families. It's their business, they can deal with it.