I dont think this is always the case. before GS on chat there was this desi stud who was always just being a punk and all, then i met him at some party, and makhanchoo sa sookha sarra insaan jo lag raha tha abboo ka coat pehen kar aaya tha..
sometimes ppl act up online in a way they are unable to in real life, but then teh question is, is that their unexpessed real self?
others may just horse around.
but when we call some ppl holier than thou, are we not infact being holier than them :halo:
ab kids hio 2 cents lay kar aatay hain 
i dont think its treating new members like kids, its treating new members who are acting like kids, ike kids