Some people suggest that you should stop talking to your fiance few days before your wedding as it gets more charming when you actually tie the knot :).
What are your views on this, does it built up to the charm and the intimacy if you stop talking let’s say for 15,20 days before the wedding date?
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i would think it does ,you have the rest of your life to talk to him.
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You’ll be getting into bed with that guy on your wedding night..
If you’re fine with not talking very much before that happens fair enough 
I’ve sometimes wondered if the “charm” thing might be more to try and protect a girl’s reputation or prevent the couple maybe not going ahead if they happen to find out something they might not like..
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If your going to marry them who cares about reputation. I think it makes the wedding more special adds more novelty
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I’ve seen people go both ways but no one stopped talking completely, they just communicated via text.
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My husband and I did not follow this tradition or whatever you want to call it. In my opinion, keeping in touch and constantly keeping the lines of communication open all the way until the actually wedding day made our relationship stronger because we saw each other handle all the worries/stress that comes with a wedding and helped each other deal with everything. In our case it was a love marriage. Looking back, I wouldn’t change anything. I can’t imagine sharing my worries/stress in the days leading up to the wedding with anyone else other than him.
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Not sure about charm thing, but if you are a bridezilla, I think a better thing to do is stop talking.
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i think this preventing from going ahead if you find anything negative, does not apply here as this is about only stopping few days before marriage.
Seen people who talk and meet throughout the engagement period but stop communication before the wedding day, so wondering if there really is some truth to the charm thing.
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^I wouldn’t say 20 days is just “a few days”..
A few days to me would be perhaps a week or so max..
It used to be tradition to not have people meet their SO till the wedding day, does not make it good or right.. I really wouldn’t take a lot of these cultural things too seriously.. Just go with what you feel comfortable with..
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Also, don’t make this decision on your own. Make sure your fiance is on board with the not talking bit. You might think it’s charming but the other person might hate the idea.