Re: Should you marry some1 you are not ATTRACTED to?
You SHOULD feel attracted to the person you're going to marry. I don't think there is anything superficial about that. It's human nature and it's manifested in the most basic of routines. For example, we don't buy clothes/items we're not attracted to. We're likely to not eat food that doesn't look appealing either. It's necessary to take into account personality/character.....but attraction has its own important place in the relationship. It's not fair to him to marry someone who doesn't find him attractive and vice versa.