should wife hide money from husbnd?

[sanadubai]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

My mom used to do some secret saving, like from monthly expenses - she used to secretly put some money aside. I remember that when my older sister was getting married, my dad was little worried about the expenses. That is when my mom said that dont worry and gave him 1 lakh rupees that she saved over few years. My dad was so grateful to my mom. I remember he was extremely emotional and happy and that day.

so sweet...now i know wat to do....

[TLK]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

I know my wife is hiding some money somewhere nowadays so she can buy an IPAD for me

[Niksik]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

really?

[Deeba1234]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

@Hadeel

Why do you want to hide money from him? Does he spend it on wrong things or lets say lavishly? If not, then there no need to. But on the other hand , you can ‘save’ money for hard times…‘hiding’ money from your spouse just doesn’t sound right and especially when you are planning to spend your hidden money on make-up and kapray shapray

But what would be the problem in spending her own personal money on makeup and stuff without asking him?? Not like she’s nicking his money to go off and buy these things..

The ‘hiding’ thing isn’t really right but sounds like he has put her in a difficult position not allowing her to open her own bank account (or see his wallet.. what would be the reason for that)..

Unless the couple is hard up or the wife is spending too lavishly or something I don’t see the problem with her keeping her own money aside to spend on herself, tbh I think it’s better than going to the husband all the time for cash like a child..

[Sara516]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

@redvelvet

You need to seek permission from him to open an account?

You do realize that you can simply go to the bank on your own..and open up your own account, right?

You could decide to put a certain amount of your money in his account…and set aside a portion for your own personal use.

If you’re working…then you can decide that some of your paycheck will go into an account shared by the both of you…and some of it goes into your own personal account.

:sigh:

I get what your’e saying but u know sometimes its not just about having permission or not, its like…I don’t exactly need my husbands permission to do something but I know if I just went ahead and did it it would hurt him and at the least it would be cause for fighting/tension. Maybe it’s out of fear or respect to not do something that the spouse doesnt wnat u to do..

[Hadeel]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

But what would be the problem in spending her own personal money on makeup and stuff without asking him?? Not like she's nicking his money to go off and buy these things..

The 'hiding' thing isn't really right but sounds like he has put her in a difficult position not allowing her to open her own bank account (or see his wallet.. what would be the reason for that)..

Unless the couple is hard up or the wife is spending too lavishly or something I don't see the problem with her keeping her own money aside to spend on herself, tbh I think it's better than going to the husband all the time for cash like a child..

I never said don't spend it, i just said don't 'hide' it and then spend it. There is a difference between the two!

[CherryBlossom]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

per my initial question - if you're a stay at home mom because your hubby asked you to quit your job and become a housewife then hide as much as you can!

[soni27]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

listen sana honey .. dont think about what is right n wht s wrong .. just do what suits u n as u pleez .. as long as u dunt gt caught .. its all good ! :)

[sanadubai]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

right....

[hunni_buney]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

listen sana honey .. dont think about what is right n wht s wrong .. just do what suits u n as u pleez .. as long as u dunt gt caught .. its all good ! :)

haha ditto

[FireWorks]

Re: should wife hide money from husbnd?

i know at least 2 married girls who have money that their husband dont know about.
.. its actually their own money since they used to work before getting married and they earned it.. so i guess they have all the rights in this world to keep their money however they like :)