Re: Should we change ourselves to find a husband?
No you shouldn’t change yourself because then you won’t be true to yourself. If you are not true to yourself how will you reach your full potential and contribute to society in the way you want. As for age and marriage i don’t think 30 is old and i believe there are still good rishtas out there. Does age and race matter to you? Would you be ok if the guy was a white convert or something? I think a lot more desi guys are open minded as well and a lot have liberal beliefs so things like age might not matter as much