…health problems? I dont know if there similar threads before..so if mods can merge it ..that be great =)
Anyhow…Should a couple consult a doctor before marriage for having healthy kids in future? Lets say if guy has cancer in his genes and girl has cancer too..does it increase the effect of future kids to have cancer in genes also? Or lets say i have very bad eye sight and da girl I am gona marry has very poor eye sight also…Should we even care about this stuff or just ignore it?
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Eeeeeeee:bummer: . I don’t want to comment on this thread until I can find out what Shariah says about this. But I do know that there are hadiths that say that if a person’s eye sight is taken away (goes blind) and if he/she be among the righteous and waits with Sabr, then Allah will admit him/her in Paradise.
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Marriage is not limited to this world...It lasts an eternity (inshallah) in the afterlife.
Its a not a union to satisfy your needs in this world, its a love-filled commitment that will continue on forever.
So if you base it on just the things each of you have in this world, then it really is useless.
That is why piety is consider the most important characteristic to look in a spouse. Because you know that will last you long, and it takes care of both this world and the hereafter.
So a health problem, would not be a problem for me (personally) since I guess if you look at the bigger picture and the long term, it really is futile.
I wouldn't give up someone I love, just cuz they have a defected eye.
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Its a not a union to satisfy your needs in this world, its a love-filled commitment that will continue on forever.
So if you base it on just the things each of you have in this world, then it really is useless.
That is why piety is consider the most important characteristic to look in a spouse. Because you know that will last you long, and it takes care of both this world and the hereafter.
So a health problem, would not be a problem for me (personally) since I guess if you look at the bigger picture and the long term, it really is futile.
I wouldn't give up someone I love, just cuz they have a defected eye.
Complete agreement. I speak from a personal experience..... :)
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How about someone who’s likely to get a crippling health condition in a few decades - lets say that the person’s parent and grandparent both have a hereditary medical condition that leaves them unable to work (in or out of the house) and in need of a lot of support, and which develops in their late 40s or early 50s?
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My ahem had polio as a child which left him with a somewhat weak leg. He was upfront about it from the beginning, he never hid it from me and i can honestly say it’s not an issue for me, superficially or even medically (can it be passed down to kids or cause infertility etc). However, it could be a potential issue for my parents though and that’s what worries me. I hid it from her in tehbeginning because if I hadn’t, she woould have never agreed to talk to him or anything..I’m on pin and needles now 
halo:
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Its a not a union to satisfy your needs in this world, its a love-filled commitment that will continue on forever.
So if you base it on just the things each of you have in this world, then it really is useless.
**That is why piety is consider the most important characteristic to look in a spouse. **Because you know that will last you long, and it takes care of both this world and the hereafter.
So a health problem, would not be a problem for me (personally) since I guess if you look at the bigger picture and the long term, it really is futile.
I wouldn't give up someone I love, just cuz they have a defected eye.
words to live by :)
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haha, maddy and his hypothetical questions.
Like I said, it wouldn't really matter....and look at the plus side, more sawab for taking care of them!!! :p
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AE: lol 
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actually u should marry a doctor so IF (god forbid) something goes wrong he/she will help ya out 
condition is u r not a doctor urself 
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mullah chalai ga baji maji?. …
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I dont get along with Mullahs 
they tend to read LAHOL on me all the time 
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lol tum kaam hi aisi karti ho gey … waisai mullah bahoot nice loog hotai hain believe me !! .
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^ Nahiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn, mein subhanallah, mashallah bolunga na :D
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jitnay mullay I have seen in past one yr…I swear I dont wana see ever! Yes they were nice and some of they are but as I said I dont tend to get along with them well.
Cressi: boltay rahou
lets go somewhere else b4 furqi kick us outta here
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Furqi, I would marry you no matter what 