Should this be it?

[Sehrysh]

Re: Should this be it?

@Decent_6Chora

If guy left with the impression of being shareef and well groomed after first formal meeting, thats all you should look at. Feelings are not black & white, there is lot of gray area b/w. Feelings are developed over time with continuous interaction.

I struggle with this answer. All of us hope that our potential mate is shareef and most people we come across genuinely are shareef, but shouldn’t there be something **more **that makes one rishta more acceptable than another? Times are changing and it’s no longer a matter of zindagi guzarnay waali baat, most people want to enjoy their lives with their partner. What if the guy is shareef and yet they have nothing in common from a personality perspective?

I dunno, it just makes me think that if sharafat was the only thing we’re looking for, then most guys and girls are interchangeable and kisi ki shaadi kisi sai bhi ho sakti hai :hinna: