Should this be it?

[PakWoman]

Re: Should this be it?

@goddamniamsoawesome

Here’s my 2p.

• Talk to the guy. If you feel he is reasonable and level headed then fair enough you can get an idea of his values, beliefs and behaviour.
• Open up with any reservations you may or may not have about married life, career, expectations, anime, etc. Just so you know his side of the discussion.
• What exactly would make you go ‘He is the one!’? I mean what exactly is a sign you’re expecting?
• Sometimes if you like a person, a period of time with them allows feelings to develop and mature. You grow as two individuals in a shared reality.
• If you still think you don’t see yourself with that guy down the line, exercise your will.
• You’re a spiritual person, why not perform Istikhara on the compatibility of the prospective couple and both families? Some people do it.

Now as far as the situation about your parents becoming over-cautions I think that’s a good thing because it gives you more independence to exercise your wishes. You can make a call because well, they made theirs and so you can too. I think that should be convention anyways but yeah.

Eitherway you’ll figure out a way, good luck!

I mean i trust my instincts in such situations and move forward according to how I feel about things… but I guess it’s too early to start figuring out how I feel after just one sitting…
lol I actually forgot to discuss anime.
I did have a say in the first decision as well, basing it on whatever my parents think is best for me… so it wasn’t their fault. They were as fooled as I was.
Istikhara… I will definitely try it InshAllah.

Liked your advice :k: Thanks